Mike Hickes praises a TV drama’s success in bringing awareness of the value of psychotherapy to a wider public. Despite dramatic licence and unrealistic boundary violations, he believes that In treatment demonstrates the fundamental power of therapy.
Originally published in THE PSYCHOTHERAPIST, Issue 56, Spring 2014.
IN TREATMENT
One of the best shows I have come across portraying both the experience of being a psychotherapist and of being a client in psychotherapy is In Treatment, an HBO drama series that aims to bring the therapeutic process to the TV screen. For me, what particularly differentiates it is the way in which it concerns itself with, and comes alive through, a relentless and almost exclusive focus on the intimate connection between therapist and client.
Presented through a unique scheduling structure, In Treatment comprises a series of tight half-hour one act plays. No changing scenery, no action, simply one intense encounter after another, screened evening after evening for four or five days each week. The therapist Paul Weston (played by Gabriel Byrne) encounters a number of different clients and Paul’s uneasy relationship with his vocation and his own personal struggles are exposed through brief vignettes of his life outside the therapy room and a session each week dedicated to his own personal therapy.
Intensity of the therapeutic relationship
We watch as Paul sits there week after week in one-to-one therapy. Some moments deeply characterise the intensity of the therapeutic relationship while others show the isolation and vulnerability so familiar in one’s life as a therapist in private practice.
In Treatment has run for three seasons and has evolved through different scriptwriters. The first two seasons were adaptations of the Israeli series Be Tipul, whereas in the third and final season the script was entirely original. In the final season, viewers were supported online through a dedicated HBO website that provided short video extracts of sessions, accompanied by informed and contrasting commentary from three psychotherapists, providing different perspectives on and insights into the therapeutic interactions portrayed.
Possibility for personal change
For me, the art and the potential for success of good television drama lie in the writers’, producers’ and actors’ ability to create an intimate atmosphere where the audience is able to understand and be moved by the drama’s characters in new and different ways. Where ‘the other’ is ‘seen’ and ‘experienced’ by the audience, where the drama arouses curiosity and stimulates reflection. Ultimately, artfully created TV drama has the potential to reveal new perspectives, examine new ways of being, indeed open up the possibility for personal change.
In many ways, these characteristics relate to the art of therapy, where therapist and client work closely together co-creating an intimate therapeutic relationship. The therapist provides a space where a client can feel listened to, heard, understood and not judged – where exploration and reflection on a client’s experience and view of the world can lead to opening up to other perspectives, a different point of view, new possibilities for living and choices about how to live.
Felt connection
Where things differ is that the art of good psychotherapy emerges through felt connection, the intimate and unique experience of client and therapist ‘in it’ together. It is an authentic felt sense, informed by different ways of knowing, always interpretative, at times intuitive, sometimes spiritual and, in the way that I practice, phenomenological. What is experienced is what is created and informed by the subjective and interrelational ways of knowing between two people.
The art of In Treatment is that it comes alive through its creative and dramatic film direction, its skilful and subtle acting and the character of the therapist Paul, as it emerges, even through slight eye movements, hand gestures and shifts in posture. Paul has a raw, vulnerable and honest quality, and the sensitive, intimate camerawork creates a powerful atmosphere, zooming in slowly at the right moments, anxiously circling the room, capturing both the intensity and the intimacy of the client–therapist encounter.This intensity is enhanced by the heartrending performances of the actors playing Paul’s clients.
A voyeuristic experience?
But can the viewer ever be really ‘in it’? If the viewer is only observing another’s intimacy by being drawn towards what is going on in the therapy room, it simply becomes a voyeuristic experience. The viewer cannot actually experience what is there, unspoken but felt between client and therapist. So, while the scenes may evoke empathy, curiosity and insight into the process of therapy, the viewer is surely apart, in a place of observation, a commentator, only able to take a critical stance, judging what they are seeing and experiencing it as a third party. If this is the case, the audience will not experience what is at the very heart of a therapeutic relationship and perhaps axiomatic to successful therapeutic outcome.
Suspension of disbelief
Alternatively, the viewer’s experience could be considered from the perspective of the poet Coleridge, who in 1817 proposed the idea of ‘suspension of disbelief’. Coleridge’s proposition was that a writer could infuse a ‘human interest and a semblance of truth’ into a tale such that the reader might be able to suspend judgment concerning the plausibility of the narrative. This might result in what is known in the theatrical and science fiction genres as ‘cognitive estrangement’ (Parrinder 2000), where an audience is able to reconsider their own situation from the alternate perspectives depicted – to learn from other worlds. Perhaps viewers of In Treatment may be privy to more than simple observation and in this suspended disbelief enter more fully the therapeutic relationship and what goes on ‘in between’ than mere observation suggests?
A vital ingredient for TV drama is of course the ‘drama’ itself. In fact, I found that watching the shows sometimes left me feeling surprisingly anxious, uneasy and emotionally affected. On edge. These feelings were not typical of the kind of emotional experiences I have had during or after seeing clients – or of being a client myself. Not only was this because I was simply an observer of the encounters portrayed, powerless and not ‘in it’, but also because there is something exaggerated in the way that the therapeutic drama is played out in the show, perhaps deliberately to maximise impact.
Boundary violations
The intense hostility, alarming aggression, harsh accusations, intensely hurt feelings, deeply cutting remarks and boundary violations are not, in my experience, typical or representative of what goes on in a therapeutic relationship. This combines with a 30-minute viewing slot that compresses and intensifies the experience of each session screened. Indeed, much has been written about the boundary violations in the series, which may make for good TV drama but are thoroughly misleading in terms of the ethical standards clients can and should reasonably expect from a professional therapeutic relationship.
So, on the one hand, I was certainly captivated by the drama but on the other hand the drama did not represent the real experience of being either therapist or client ‘in the room’. Of course, drama can and does emerge between therapist and client in the therapeutic encounter; drama and emotion are inherent in psychotherapy. However, this emerges through the experience and interaction of being together and struggling with the intimate problems and difficulties with living. The limitations or shortcomings of TV are that it is simply not possible to make that kind of internal experience of drama and emotion come alive for the viewer.
Insights into the psychotherapeutic process
Despite this qualification, In Treatment does provide viewers with an opportunity to gain real insight into the psychotherapeutic process, the therapy world, how it works and how helpful it can be in people’s lives. There is a lot of good therapy in the show. Putting aside debate about orientation and technique because the intention is not to offer a technical tool for CPD (although it is used with trainee analysts on one course at the William Alanson Institute in NYC), the series brings out the fundamentals of therapy: the emotional impact and empowerment; the importance of curiosity and open exploration; the value of experiencing a different point of view; how therapists facilitate self-examination and support the client to take responsibility and change. This is therapy and shows the power of being with another where the explicit and the implicit in the client’s life are gently and caringly brought to light and considered.
The therapist’s responsibility
Of course, Paul’s clients come to therapy for help in addressing their various difficulties with living. A question that one might ask is whether Paul’s clients are actually getting what they want from the therapy and whether are they more able to move forward in their lives as a result of the sessions? This raises fundamental questions: who and what defines successful outcome, as well as how to know. The series cannot answer all these questions but Paul’s performance as a therapist does address the most vital dimension of therapeutic progress, the litmus test: the therapist’s responsibility to facilitate the client’s process in gaining insight into the barriers underlying their difficulties, exploring and reflecting on these, and getting the client to the point where they can consider their choices and the consequences they face.
What Paul’s clients might do with this work, how they might later reflect on it and how they might use it outside the therapy room, we may have our hunches. There are some hints from ongoing dialogue in the sessions but we simply do not know, as we do not know in the ‘real’ world of therapy. The fundamental achievement of the series is its demonstration of what it takes to work in therapy and be in therapy, to develop insight, open up new possibilities, and that choices and responsibility lie within ourselves.
A caring therapeutic alliance
In series three, one of Paul’s clients, Sunil, a middle-aged Bengali man, is suffering from seemingly irrecoverable loss. Having lost his wife, Kamala, five months before moving to the USA to stay with his son Arun, Sunil seems utterly displaced. Lonely, increasingly estranged from his son, he is longing to be home in Calcutta with its familiar culture and music. He is grieving not only the death of his wife but also a long-lost relationship with Malini, his first love, as well as feeling deeply the absence of any valued role in life. Through the sessions with Sunil, we see Paul building a deep and caring therapeutic alliance, his empathy perhaps fuelled by his own experience as an Irish immigrant coming to the USA and his own loneliness and loss through a recent divorce. Paul sensitively responds to Sunil and works hard to identify the barriers he faces in moving forward with his life. Some of Paul’s interventions explore and reflect on Sunil’s explicit and harsh criticism of his son Arun’s marriage to Julia and his descriptions of inappropriate intimacy between them. Paul suggests that what might be implicit in Sunil’s explicit feelings is deep loss felt in his own life and that he may be experiencing jealousy of what Arun and Julia have in their relationship as well as the effects of a loss of intimacy in his own life.
I have several clients who have referred to their interest in and habitual viewing of the In Treatment series. I have also noticed in my own private practice an increasing trend towards younger people seeking help through therapy. I have no idea whether these are connected but I for one feel that In Treatment has achieved real success in what is a monumental attempt to portray the psychotherapeutic process more accurately for a broader TV audience. If it acts as a good TV drama and also demystifies and opens up the art and value of psychotherapy to a new generation, that is indeed artful television drama.
References
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Coleridge ST (1817). Biographia literaria: biographical sketches of my literary life and opinions.